Step-by-step guide to the Jewish Conversion Process (Giyur)

At Mixed Neshamot, we know that choosing to convert to Judaism is not just a religious decision, it is a deeply personal, emotional, and transformative journey, especially for women navigating love, immigration, identity, and belonging.

This guide explains the general step-by-step process of Jewish conversion (Giyur) for women, as it is commonly experienced in Israel and in recognized Jewish communities. Keep in mind that specific requirements may vary depending on the Jewish denomination (Orthodox, Conservative, or Reform) and the rabbinical authority overseeing the process.

Disclaimer: This blog is based on personal experiences and community stories. It is not a substitute for professional rabbinical guidance. Always consult a trusted rabbi before making decisions regarding conversion.

Personal reflection and motivation

The first step happens within.

Conversion to Judaism requires sincere, internal motivation. Rabbis will want to understand whether the candidate:

• Understands what it means to live as a Jewish woman

• Is willing to take on Jewish values and commandments (mitzvot)

• Is ready to fully join the Jewish people, spiritually, culturally, and socially

Important note: Converting only for marriage, legal status, or external pressure is not considered sufficient. The process is about personal conviction and long-term commitment.

Connecting with a Jewish community and a rabbi

The next step is to approach a recognized Jewish community and speak with a rabbi who guides conversions.

This usually includes:

• An initial conversation

• Questions about motivation and background

• An explanation of the conversion path and expectations

  
  

It is common for rabbis to initially test your determination or even discourage you. This is part of the tradition and is meant to assess seriousness and commitment.

Beginning formal studies

Once accepted into the process, the study phase begins. This stage typically lasts between 1 and 3 years, depending on the individual and the rabbinical framework.

Studies often include:

• Foundations of Jewish belief

• Torah and Tanach (Hebrew Bible)

• Halacha (Jewish law)

• Shabbat and Jewish holidays

• Kashrut (dietary laws)

• Jewish history

• Jewish ethics and values

• Basic Hebrew

Ongoing personal study outside of classes is expected.

Living Jewish life in practice

Judaism is lived through daily actions, not only learned through books. During the conversion process, candidates gradually begin to practice Jewish life.

This may include:

• Observing Shabbat

• Keeping kosher (according to the guidance received)

• Attending prayers and holidays

• Becoming active in community life

• Adjusting routines, habits, and values

  
  

This stage helps both the candidate and the rabbinical authorities understand whether the commitment is realistic and sustainable.

Evaluation by the Beit Din (Rabbinical Court)

When the supervising rabbi feels the candidate is ready, they are referred to the Beit Din, usually composed of three rabbis.

The Beit Din may ask about:

• Personal motivation

• Jewish knowledge

• Religious practice

• Community involvement and family life

  
  

This can be an emotionally intense moment, but it is a central and meaningful step in the journey.

Immersion in the Mikveh

Immersion in the Mikveh (ritual bath) represents spiritual rebirth.

After immersion:

• The woman is considered Jewish

• A Hebrew name is given

• She assumes all the rights and responsibilities of a Jewish person

  
  

For many, this is one of the most emotional and powerful moments of the entire journey.

Official integration into the Jewish community

Conversion is not the end, it is the beginning.

After conversion, the individual can:

• Marry according to Jewish law

• Fully participate in Jewish religious life

• Pass on Jewish identity to her children

  
  

Belonging grows through continued learning, connection, and community.

Important things to keep in mind

• Jewish conversion is not quick or easy

• It requires patience, consistency, and emotional strength

• Every journey is unique

• Challenges are a natural part of the process

  
  

At Mixed Neshamot, we believe no woman should walk this path alone. Community, shared experiences, and mutual support make all the difference.

Choosing to convert to Judaism as a woman is choosing a people, a history, and a way of life. It is a courageous decision rooted in identity, love, and purpose.

If you are on this path, know this: your journey matters, and you belong.

Mixed Neshamot is here to support, empower, and walk alongside you every step of the way.